1.SELF-CONFIDENCE: MY TWISTER LOVE WANTS TO KNOW

Self confidence is an innate feeling that I can do it. I shall be do it. I am to do it. The feeling does not come on it's own but a lot of complicated and interwoven metabolic processes are responsible for it. Self confidence is not a natural process but an evolved process. The evolution takes many other things into account. By and large the self confidence is known by its existential parameters.

HOW TO DEVELOP THESE PARAMETERS INTO ONE'S OWN LIFE:

Broadly speaking, the parameters of self confidence are manifested into a set of processes which look so mundane that we happen to ignore them just by natural behaviour:-

SPEECH:- the spoken language is one of the prime parameter. It is often believed that this faculty is more developed during early life. It may be scientifically true but our motto is how to trigger this faculty in the required age. " It is never late". We can convince and self hypnotize ourselves. It is practically possible. We have to choose what type of mechanism is happening most in our own's case. The road blocks can be identified eg. hazitation. HAZITATION is a feeling when we feel we can do it but biological system does not respond. The mechanism can be understood and manouvred by putting your biological clock back 'artificially'.

HOW TO PUT BIOLOGICAL CLOCK BACK:- Here we can circumscribe it to our relevant topic only as the topic as such is holistic in nature and beyond the scope of this article. The biological clock is a set of metabolic process which translates time and space into our own being. We can put it back artificially to attain a particular goal by self hypnosis, self regulation and self realization. The results are remarkable. Our target is 'one' :- we can do it. The mechanism is very well known. It's the communication methodology or skills which we have to learn a fresh. We shall choose all mechanisms of communication skills available to us at a particular time.

BODY LANGUAGE:- A commonly used term, is a set of reflexes of noe's body under a set of environs. It plays a great role in one's personality. It takes an enhanced role to play when one has to face undefined environs. The reflexes are by and large not under one's control but we can manouvre it indirectly. The basic parameters are (i) to feel at ease (ii) Take some time to to react (iii) get yourself convinced of what you are to perform or to say (iii) Tel your system that it is nothing but normal. (iv) Face the controversies constructively and supportingly (v) One should be at ease while speaking beacause the emphasis should be on the context.

SELF CONFIDENCE AT WORK PLACE: ( TO BE CONTINUED)

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